Relationship and Marriage coaching/counseling is a process that helps couples nurture their intimacy, meet each other’s needs and learn to communicate in positive ways so that they can stay connected and in love with each other.

Conflict resolution is a skill that can be learned and refined so that a couple can grow in understanding and always seek a win-win outcome. Learning ways that are loving and respectful and applying them is always going to be a choice. 

I help couples clear up the negative lenses they may be looking through when they see their spouse and remember why they fell in love with each other in the first place.      

I give couples tools such as Rules of Engagement: How to have a fair fight. These rules of engagement almost always will uncover any negative patterns that couples are in and keep repeating when it comes to resolving their problems and conflict.

In addition we work on understanding each person’s uniqueness, not only as a man and a woman, but also each person’s unique personality. Learning how our partner feels loved and their basic needs gives the husband and wife the knowhow and understanding to give to their spouse what they need and desire. 

Many times when there has been hurt and brokenness in the relationship there is a need for forgiveness and I help my clients walk through the process of forgiving their partner and releasing the hurt and pain to bring healing in the relationship.

I also encourage couples to create a vision and goals for their relationship so they are on the same page and moving in the same direction as a team.